Ahuh. its a horrific smile. very deceptive, fake and looks like its out to do something nasty. I have always been picturing certain adults as "strange" scary even. No its not about fictional characters
its really "them". You encounter these scary clowns everywhere. It could be in the form of people you know at work, school, neighborhood.
Yah right its pretty traumatic! We can be scarred for life from these made in hollywood symbolisms that turnout to be real life diabolic smiley creatures. You really cant tell them from a crowd sometimes....
Too bad i cant go on detail about my personal experiences on these scary clowns or i might get myself into serious trouble. What i can divulge are my basic elementary appreciation of defensive tools to make your experience with scary the clown, more tolerable and yes happy.
Afterall, happiness is universal. A happy face the geunine kind, is infectious and mood soothing. A very genuine person in your conpany or random, is a pleasure to your senses and spirit.
Think of your life as a series of empty colored buttons or circles and imagine what it would be like if you had control to these buttons and tag them according to what pleases you the most. . .
You can tag them randomly according to the things that motivates you the most, people who you value the most and which circle gives you the most fulfillment and happiness. The color may not reflect the importance that you give it. You dont need to arrange it according to the "most" important or the "least".
Now imagine yourself having a tough time something like someone stole your box of original 70s vinyl disco album records of abba or barry manilow or something as lamer as you cant pass the entrance exam in a very competitive university cause youre good at everything else except algebra. Or worse something as a game changer as perhaps you lost a loveone or youre about to lose a job.
These circle charts or as i may describe as "HAPPY POINTS" OR "SMILE BUTTONS" are your guide to keep you staying afloat and gives you more confidence to do what has to be done to increase your chances at happiness better. Ok no fast rules on this one. This is not even a solutions chart. Its just a guide to what can make you smile more when that scary clown starts making his presence known. Keep pressing on those buttons and gain your reservoir of happiness and confidence from your stronger colored circles.
It works this way peeps...if you got more power strengths on your relationship with God, keep pressing on that yellow button to gain your peace and gather your strength to keep you going!
If you recently lost your girlfriend to some hunky rich guy,dont fret! something better is on your way and since the color red for "interests" keeps you occupied in basketball or academics, keep pressing that red button and be relieved that you can accomplish something better than having to spend months crying over something that wasnt meant to be. You can draw your strengths from one or more circles and keep pressing it to relieve you when bad times struck.
Happiness is what you make it to be. If you want to be happy, start young and develop positive qualities. Dont allow the rat race to consume you and devour all the positive attributes that you learn from your parents, your school and your mentors.
Its that simple? NO. But you will always get the relief that you are not the owners of all the burdens in the world. Youre never too ugly youre never too poor (unless you wanna stay that way) youre never too fat and youre not the unluckiest person out there. And if you are, then you need one giant circle for that or something more complex. If you believe youre the least lucky, go contact national geographic and let them do a special on you.
In the end, it doesnt matter what the scary clowns do to you and its really how you treat the world and how you define your happiness. You can get lost those evil clowns and even develop a few of their traits. But remember, its just a facade. Their battles are different from yours and its never too late to shed evil and negativity off your system. Camouflage yourself amongst those evil clowns and live the life that you always wanted! You cant always pretend. Be the real happy person that you deserve to be!
Those fake smiles are a routine fixture of the world around us. Its make believe. You are in charge of your own happiness, be brave, be productive, manage your defenses and smile all around!
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